Posts Tagged ‘Condescension’
Bert Tassoni has shared some tips that he recommend for use by those of us who are looking to have the relationships that we are involved in to work better than they are currently. We tend to be better people in all of the spheres of life if we are in sincere relationships that are working great because you would be getting the necessary encouragement that you would need to urge you on when it comes to dealing with tough situations that arise as you continue to live. It is quite frustrating to have a bad day at work, then when you get home, instead of having some time to relax on your own you end up arguing and quarrelling over some really insignificant thing in your life.
In order to be in a happy relationship, Bert Tassoni says that you should not be a person who is always blaming other people when things go wrong. In a relationship, when things seem not to be working out, take responsibility and decide to do whatever you can to make things to be much better than they are at the moment. When you decide to confront someone and begin to just point out their faults and blame them for the things that are happening, condescension is one thing that is likely to arise and hence the relationship would only turn out to be more annoying.
When you decide to take responsibility for anything that does not work out well, you would be able to make the other person realize that he or she also has some faults that need to be worked on, and you would soon turn out to be brought even closer together. Bert Tassoni says that this would go hand in hand with personally initiating the efforts that are aimed at making the relationship more fulfilling and satisfying than it is at the moment. Never be the one who is just hiding in the shadows and emerge only to criticize the actions of others.
A blossoming relationship is one in which the parties involved are those who understand each other well and know how all the people involved are feeling concerning their participation in that particular relationship. Bert Tassoni says that this understanding can only come about when those who are involved in the relationship properly converse with one another. Communication is very important when it comes to building a great relationship as you would thus be able to know how all of you are sincerely feeling in that relationship and the changes that would need to be made so as to make things better. For example, if one of you feels that you are not spending enough time together and yet the other person had no clue that you were feeling depraved, talking this out would help one to see the need for the changes that would need to be made. Bert Tassoni says that communication comes in handy when it comes to settling disputes, and if in that particular relationship you talk quite well then the issue would get to be quickly cleared up.